Mental Health Awareness Week: Learning to enjoy the here and now

Posted on May 17, 2018 by Nicky Mansell

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Mental Health Awareness Week
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Name: Nicky Mansell

Area of work: Young Vet Network representative on BVA Council

Nicky graduated from Royal Veterinary College in 2012 and has worked in mixed practice ever since. She currently works for Chine House Veterinary Hospital in Leicestershire.

Nicky discusses the importance of self-care and wellbeing for young and recently qualified vets.

Many of us begin our journey into veterinary medicine at a very early age and spend our entire childhood striving towards this goal. We are focused, driven and passionate about becoming part of the veterinary profession.

When we are at school we spend our time either studying or gaining relevant work experience to apply to vet school. Then once we get into vet school we study even more and spend time on endless EMS placements and rotations to achieve our MRCVS qualification. Then comes the goal of finding the perfect job, with the right mix of work, appropriate location and good support network. Then once we find a job, we need to build up our clinical skill set and confidence. And what happens once we achieve our end goal of being a competent vet…

Increasingly many graduates find that once they reach this stage they become disillusioned with the veterinary profession and that the expectation of being a vet doesn’t match up to the realities of life in practice. There are rising numbers of young vets who are diversifying, specialising or leaving the profession.

Perfectionists

Many of us are perfectionists and are always striving towards the next goal for example, finding the ideal job, doing an internship or gaining a certificate. Or we compare ourselves to our peers and feel pressure to compete with their achievements. And we often feel our happiness hinges on achieving these goals.

However happiness should not be goal orientated, the journey towards our goals, as well as accepting and enjoying the here and now is incredibly important.

Mindfulness and stress

Mindfulness can be an incredibly powerful tool for improving your wellbeing. The Vetlife website has lots of tips on mindfulness and fitting this into even the busiest of days.

A simple technique when you are feeling stressed which can help to reset your thoughts is ‘The Traffic Light’:

  • Stop: Stop what you are doing. Pause for a moment.
  • Take a breath: Breathe, it’s easy, we do it all of the time, we just don’t think about it. Really notice how the breath feels entering your body and how it feels as you exhale. Concentrate only on your breath.
  • Observe: Now you’ve had that pause and breathed a little, how do you feel? What’s going on for you? Just notice, observe it without judging.
  • Proceed: Time to continue on your journey.

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Nicky Mansell

Written by Nicky Mansell

Recent graduate representative on BVA Council

Nicky graduated from Royal Veterinary College in 2012 and has worked in mixed practice ever since. She currently works for Chine House Veterinary Hospital in Leicestershire.